Lessons From ABM

After spending much time trying to get a woman to understand and know what love is. I have to say to hell with that bullshit. I mean there is no need to waste time on tricks when they have no clue about themselves or what they want.

When they put their so called friends first constantly instead of the man that helps them move, helps them up when they fall and more. To run go tell dat to the weak ass friends who are only there to tear everything down.

Women would rather not say anything then do bullshit than talk to men about what is really going on. Not able to handle someone getting upset with their spoiled asses. I mean running to a man's ex to find information and talk makes their asses look stupid as fuck. I got tired of hearing about how dumb they looked from that.

And for the women that think that they can just attack their man physically. Pull your minds together because that may not be a good idea at all. Just cool off and pull yourself together before you get your ass whooped since you think you are bad. Men shouldn't hit women and women definitely need to not get physical with men.

The need to work on a relationship together instead of just running your mouth and talking shit thinking that you are right is a NECESSITY. This bullshit nonchalant bitch shit is for the retarded. Save that crap for yourself. Know that no one is going to cater to your ass like that.

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Just another address from the ABM coalition

Now What You Say About Fam?

The Family Factor: Importance

While in the midst of a relationship we still have to deal with concerns and issues of our immediate family. The parents, siblings and those that were family before you got in a relationship with someone else. Depending on your closeness and attachment yields the level of interaction and importance of them in your life.

The subject matter is this: When is focusing on YOUR family a hindrance or important while you are in a relationship?

Is it wrong to feel and need to go help family in crisis while you are in a relationship?

Are there only an allotted number of times you can help family?

Or is there a need to have it cleared with the one you are with before it is considered?

Personally, I am not that close to my family, so when I feel the need to do something concerning them it is of importance. Yet, when I did voice this I found the individual I was with to actually tell me that “it wasn’t important and I needed to stay and work on us.” Now this attitude and demeanor shocked me but also put things into perspective. If the person you are with doesn’t find family important enough to consider a request like this, what does that say about the importance to a family is to them? Hell, the importance of a family with them?

So with all this said. I ask you.

What’s the real deal?